My Top 25 Prince Jamz

Prince On April 21, 2016, we lost a uniquely original soul. One of the most influential, iconic, and innovative performers of our time passed away. Prince was brilliant, talented, unapologetic, and there will never be another. We were blessed to have such a dynamic human being among us. Prince was so much more than a musician to me. Prince was family and I will mourn his loss, as well as celebrate his life, always. His music was there when I grieved; his music gave me inspiration when creating. Losing him is still difficult to come to terms with…

In honor of his incredible body of work, I’m sharing my fav Prince jamz. Enjoy!

25. “Dinner With Delores”One of those “quiet” jams that just can’t be ignored.

24. “If Eye Was The Man In Ur Life”- A jam from the Musicology album. I love the heck out of the chorus.

23. “Something In The Water (Does Not Compute)”One of those songs that just leaves you spellbound. I’ve never heard anything quite like this.

22. “Little Red Corvette” Hypnotic and sexy as hell!

21. “Gett Off”A jam with an irresistible chorus, and highly sexualized lyrics. Yass!

20. “Black Sweat” From the 3121 album. This jam makes you want to get up and dance.

19. “Nothing Compares 2 U”The version Prince did with New Power Generation’s Rosie Gaines was everything. The lyrics about a lost love is the kind of jam you play on repeat after a breakup… and then you cry to it- that ugly cry.

18. “DMSR”A get out on the dancefloor jam.

17. “You Got The Look”An unforgettable duet with Sheena Easton.

16. “Uptown”A “set your mind free” jam. Forget all your troubles and dance around the room to this.

15. “Dirty Mind”A song that’s special to me because of my bud. This was our car jam.

14. “Controversy”Jam this while singing into a hairbrush. The beat of this is what sticks out the most.

13. “Do Me Baby”One of his definitive sensual jamz. Whenever I’m writing an erotic scene, this is one of the main songs that I listen to.

12. “1999”Just a straight up fun jam.

11. “The Marrying Kind”Another one of his later jamz that I really fell for.

10. “Adore”The lyrics of this song just makes me turn into a pile of mush. Totally romantic.

9. “Darling Nikki”This jam is sex served on a plate. Nuff’ said.

8. “Purple Rain”If you don’t catch the feels when listening to this… something must seriously be wrong. One incredible masterpiece.

7. “International Lover”Seductive and romantic.

6. “7”I used to sing this with my dad, so it’s extra special to me.

5. “Let’s Go Crazy” My introduction to His Royal Bossness. This was the first Prince song I remember loving.

4. “The Beautiful Ones”- An atmospheric jam that requires lit candles, and sandalwood incense.

3. “Eye Hate U” There was a season in my life where this was played daily. I think it’s one of those guttural, emotional, brokenhearted jamz. A scorned lover brings his feelings for his cheating partner out in such a beautiful way. “I hate you cause I love you.” Ooh, damn that’s deep.

2. “When Doves Cry” The opening riff to this song never fails to blow me away. The bass guitar is absent from this jam, but it’s so freaking dope that you don’t care!

1. “Erotic City” A song on the highest level of bossness. It’s a hot and kinky jam that just takes the listener on an unbelievable ride. Hecks, I wish I could go to Erotic City!!

Cheers, homies!

Rest In Peace, Prince.

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The Strange Chronicles Of A Hopeless Romantic #1

roses      I am a hopeless romantic.

The kind who romanticizes everything  under the sun. I’m the woman who internally gushes when I spot couples holding hands.

I am a hopeless romantic.

I adore love and all it entails. Love does it for me.

I totally relish the smell of love, the taste, the feel, the sounds, and the visuals of love. From a forehead kiss to a passionate exchange, love is my shiz.

I devour the pages of steamy romance novels. I drown myself in the lyrics of love songs. I pour my heart and soul into every love poem that I’ve ever written.

I think you may get my point. 😀

Love though has been so elusive for me in my mid-thirties. I’m not actively looking for it, but still. I want to know it’s available when I do begin my search.

Oddly- and ironically, I’m a hopeless romantic with a nonexistent love life. My love life is like a desolate wasteland or some shit.

Of course I have book boyfriends galore. I have celeb menz that I drool over on a daily basis. Unfortunately, in real life there are currently no prospects.

My last first date was a long time ago.

That date was with a guy named Ralph, we saw the movie 300. Yeah, so that gives you a point of reference time wise.

There was a season of my life where the men were plenty, but NONE of them did it for me. My friends can tell ya that I was attracting some freaks, and not the amazing kind!

Check one of my first posts about the Strange Dudes for reference.

There hasn’t been anyone that has stirred my pot in awhile. Someone who makes a woman fall apart at the sound of his voice. A man that causes you to tremble with lust… when you feel his breath on your neck.

That kind of action only happens in my writing.

I did have someone special in my life for a substantial amount of time. That situation went off and on for years. He was and is extremely important to me. He was a flawed, but extraordinary human being that I loved fiercely. However in that situation love wasn’t enough to sustain it. And there were various distractions on his end, plus he simply wasn’t ready. Sometimes I feel as if I wasted a lot of time, but I learned so much from that person… so.

During the off season with the unnamed person I would meet guys, but they just weren’t a good fit. I’m not that picky, but I required a quality product, dang it!

The idea of dating kind of freaks me out a bit. I’m so out of practice, but technically you could say that I’ve never been much of a dater. And now I’m a hopeless romantic in a fuck buddy society… which is both depressing and limiting. No one wants genuine love anymore.

Do people even date?

Should I try Christian Mingle when I’m ready to date? Hellz no! That’s where all the kinky folks are! LOL.

Has erotic romance novels ruined me?

Nah. I still have hope for meeting my soulmate.

Cheers, homies!


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